January 25, 2010

Among the things I dearly love...

  • are conversations about sexuality. The person could be anything, and I'd love to talk to them about it. Its just one of those things that interest me. I'm not going to tell you where I fall on the spectrum, not because it isn't important, but because I think knowing the person first is more important. Too many snap decisions are made on the basis of gender and sexuality.There's a school of thought based off the Kinsey scale (a continuum from 1 to 6, with 1 being completely heterosexual and 6 being completely homosexual) that says that no one is completely one or the other, and that everyone falls somewhere in the decimal points of obscurity somewhere between 1.1 and 5.9. Talking to people has only served to further solidify this argument.
  • also on the list falls conversations about personal things when you know the person listening is genuinely interested in what you are saying. It is not often that this happens, but when it does, it's incredible. Its when all other obligations are set aside and the flow of the conversation is just natural; nothing is forced. Its a beautiful thing.
  • Tea. Just throwin' that out there.

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